Oops, I did it again...

I will have to post a new profile picture...I just needed a little shape up trim on my new long hairstyle. I have been growing out many lenghts for nearly two years now. I made an appointment with my dear hairdresser of thirty years...my hair is gone, in a pile , on the floor of the beauty shop. What we have here, is a failure to communicate. The front still looks long  but the back is angled to inches from my crown then shaved to my neck. I never wanted my neck shaved or 4 inches of hair cut off. I do not, as I near my sixtieth birthday, have the neck for it! I am not sure how I let this happen again (way too short), I have to let this go....I am trying to age gracefully here...