Friday, January 3, 2025

Book Challenges 2024…

 








I did not finish my challenges this year. It is a plus I survived 2024. Grief is so much worse than I thought it would be. It does not get better or easier. I have so many bad days. I miss my best friend. That person who loved unconditionally. I feel so alone. I consider it an accomplishment that I survived this year. Now I must talk about my challenges.

POP SUGAR CHALLENGE 2024🫎

1. A book with the word “leap” in the title.🫎

Once Upon a Leap Year by Anna Bell


2. A Bildungsroman, coming-of-age story.

The Heart’s Invisible Furies by James Boyne⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 3/9/2024


3. A book about a 24 year old. Ordinary Grace by William Kent Kruger 🎧Ariel Drum is 24 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️12/16/24


4. A book about a writer/author. Tell Me a Story by Cassandra King Conroy 🎧⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️1/24/24 


5. A book about K-Pop. 🫎If I Had Your Face by Frances Cha


6. A book about pirates-One Piece Pirates

by Eiichiro Oda⭐️⭐️⭐️ he 1/5/24


7. A book about women’s sports and/or by an athlete. Find a Way by Diana Nyad 🎧

⭐️⭐️⭐️9/9/24


8. A book by a blind or visually impaired author.🫎 The Music of Silence:A Memoir by Andrea Bocelli


9. A book by a deaf or hard of hearing author

Deaf Utopia by Nyle DeMarco🎧⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️8/1/24


10. A book by a self published author🫎Mandsfield Park by Jane Austen 


11. A book from a genre you typically avoid

Rogue Protocol by Martha Wells ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Fantasy/Sci-Fi  4/3/2024


12. A book from an animal’s POV-A Dog’s Courage by W Bruce Cameron ⭐️⭐️⭐️5/29/24


13. A book originally published under a pen name/pseudonym~Pansies by Alexis Hall⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️7/7/24


14. A book recommended by a bookseller~James by Percival Everett⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️11/30/24

“ I assume this is a recommend”


15. A book recommended by a librarian~The Mighty Red by Louise Erdrich ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️10/25/24


16. A book set 24 years before you were born.🫎 The Paris Hours by Alex George


17. A book set in a travel destination on your bucket list-A Room With a View by EM Forster—Florence, Italy 🎧⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️6/21/24


18. A book set in space. Artificial Condition by Martha Wells⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️1/25/2024


19. A book set in the future~The Parable of the Sower by Octavia E Butler⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️7/8/24


20. A book set in the snow🫎The Shipping News by Annie Proulx 


21. A book that came out in a year that ends in”24” Wandering Stars by Tommy Orange ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️2/6/2024 (net galley arc)


22. A book that centers on video games🫎

Tomorrow and Tommorrow and Tomorrow by

Gabrielle Zeven

23. A book that features dragons🫎 The Priory of the Orange Tree by Samantha Shannon 


24. A book that takes place over the course of 24 hours🫎 The Hours by Michael Cunningham


25. A book that was published 24 years ago/2000🫎A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius by Dave Eggers⭐️⭐️ 11/9/2024


26. A book that was turned into a musical🫎

High Fidelity by Nick Hornby (musical-High Fidelity)


27. A book where someone dies in the first chapter~Yellowface by RF Kuang ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️7/23/24


28. A book with a main character who is 42 years old-The Mysterious Affair at Styles by Agatha Christie-Poirot is between 40-45 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️9/19/24


29. A book with a neurodivergent main character-The Maid by Nita Prose ⭐️⭐️⭐️8/9/24


30. A book with a one word title you had to look up in the dictionary~Kairos by Jenny Erpenbeck (Greek -opportunity) translated from German by Michael Hofman, first man to win International Booker Prize translation. Kairos wins International Booker Prize for fiction. ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️6/13/24


31. A book with a title that is a complete sentence⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️Let Us Descend by Jesmyn Ward 5/17/24


32. A book with an enemies-to-lovers plot~

Block Shot by Kennedy Ryan ⭐️⭐️⭐️7/20/2024


33. A book with an unreliable narrator-The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store by James McBride ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️2/9/24

(Narrating the story is the Angel of Truth, whom according to a parable God had cast out of heaven)


34. A book with at least 3 POVs-The Rabbit Hutch by Tess Gunty ⭐️⭐️⭐️2/14/24


35. A book with magical realism-Long Island Compromise by Taffy Brodesser-Akner ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 5/26/24 (Shades of magical realism)


36. A book written by an incarcerated or formerly incarcerated person~The Many Lives of Mama Love by Lara Love Hardin⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️4/22/2024


37. A book written during NA-NO-WRI-MO/National Novel Writing Month🫎The Astonishing Color of After by Emily X.R. Pan


38. A cozy fantasy book-Bookshops & Bonedust by Travis Baldree ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️4/14/2024


39. A fiction book by a trans or non-binary 

author-For the Love of April French by Penny Aimes ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️5/30/24


40. A horror book by a BIPOC author-

My Heart is a Chainsaw by Stephan Graham Jones ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️5/6/24


41. A memoir that explores queerness-

Becoming a Man: The Story of a Transition by PCarl⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️7/3/24


42. A non-fiction book about indigenous people~Braiding Sweetgrass by Robin Wall Kimmerer⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️10/12/24


43. A second chance romance-Happy Place by Emily Henry⭐️⭐️⭐️ 3/19/24


44. An autobiography by a woman in rock ‘n’ roll🫎 No Walls and the Recurring Dream  by Ani  DeFranco


Read Harder 2024📚

1. Read a cozy fantasy book-Bookshops & Bonedust by Travis

Baldree⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️4/14/2024

2. Read a YA book by a trans author. Stay Gold by Tobly McSmith 📚

3.Read a middle grade horror novel.

Coraline by Neil Gaimen ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️2/15/24

4. Read a history book by a BIPOC author.

Wandering Stars by Tommy Orange ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 2/6/2024l

5. Reads sci-fi novella. Artificial Condition by Martha Wells (Murderbot Diaries) ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️1/25/2024

6. Read a middle grade book with an LGBTQIA main character. Hurricane Child by Kacen Callender ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️9/26/24

7.  Read an Indie published collection of poetry by a BIPOC author. Home Body by Rupi Kaur ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️6/1/24

8. Read a book in translation from a country you’ve never visited~Kairos by Jenny Erpenbeck ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🎧 International Booker Prize for fiction+translation.

Translated from German by Michael Hofman 6/13/24

9. Read a book recomended by a librarian~James by Percival Everett⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️11/30/24

10. Read a historical fiction book by an indigenous author ~The Mighty Red by Louise Erdrich⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️10/25/24

11. Read a picture book published in the last five years. What Happened to You? 

by James Catchpole ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/4/2024 

My Shadow is Purple by Scott Stuart ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️6/23/24

12. Read a genre book (SFF, horror. mystery, romance) written by a disabled author. Seabisquit by Laura Hillenbrand📚

13. Read a comic that has been banned. 

Heartstopper by Alice Oseman ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️11/12/24

14. Read a book by an author with an upcoming event (virtual or in person) then attend the event.📚The Waters by Bonnie Jo Campbell—Escanaba Public Library July 17 5:30 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️12/10/24

15. Read a YA nonfiction book.📚Solito by Javier Zamora (my kindle)

16. Read a book based solely on the title. The Hearts Invisible Furies by John  Boyne⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️3/9/2024

17. Read a book about media literacy.📚 No…just no.

18. Read a book about drag or queer artistry~The Black Flamingo by Dean Atta⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️7/24/24

19. Read a romance with neurodivergent characters. The Girl He Used to Know by Tracey Garvis Graves⭐️⭐️⭐️ 2/18/24

20. Read a book about books, fiction or nonfiction.📚 the Personal Librarian by Marie Benedict

21. Read a book that went under the radar in 2023. The Vaster Wilds by Lauren Groff

Hardcover/signed 1st Edition ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️3/26/2024

22. Read manga or manwha.One Piece Pirates by Eiichiro Oda by ⭐️⭐️⭐️1/5/2024

23. Read a “howdunit”or “whydunit”-The Maid by Nita Prose ⭐️⭐️⭐️8/9/24

24. Pick a challenge from any previous years’ challenges and repeat.  Read Harder 2022–#19 Read a  horror by novel by a BIPOC author-My Heart is a Chainsaw by Stephan Graham Jones ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 5/6/24

45. An LBGTQ romance novel-Family Meal by Bryan Washington ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️4/2/2024

Red White and Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️8/14/24

Short 13 books. Ugh! I am not happy with myself. My favorite read was James by Percival Everett. I also loved My Heart is a Chainsaw and The Heaven and Earth Grocery Store. The Mighty Red by Louise Erdrich and The Vaster Wilds by Lauren Groff also amazing. And my second challenge…

READ HARDER 2024📚

1. Read a cozy fantasy book-Bookshops & Bonedust by Travis

Baldree⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️4/14/2024

2. Read a YA book by a trans author. Stay Gold by Tobly McSmith 📚

3.Read a middle grade horror novel.

Coraline by Neil Gaimen ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️2/15/24

4. Read a history book by a BIPOC author.

Wandering Stars by Tommy Orange ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 2/6/2024l

5. Reads sci-fi novella. Artificial Condition by Martha Wells (Murderbot Diaries) ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️1/25/2024

6. Read a middle grade book with an LGBTQIA main character. Hurricane Child by Kacen Callender ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️9/26/24

7.  Read an Indie published collection of poetry by a BIPOC author. Home Body by Rupi Kaur ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️6/1/24

8. Read a book in translation from a country you’ve never visited~Kairos by Jenny Erpenbeck ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️🎧 International Booker Prize for fiction+translation.

Translated from German by Michael Hofman 6/13/24

9. Read a book recomended by a librarian~James by Percival Everett⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️11/30/24

10. Read a historical fiction book by an indigenous author ~The Mighty Red by Louise Erdrich⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️10/25/24

11. Read a picture book published in the last five years. What Happened to You? 

by James Catchpole ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 1/4/2024 

My Shadow is Purple by Scott Stuart ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️6/23/24

12. Read a genre book (SFF, horror. mystery, romance) written by a disabled author. Seabisquit by Laura Hillenbrand📚

13. Read a comic that has been banned. 

Heartstopper by Alice Oseman ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️11/12/24

14. Read a book by an author with an upcoming event (virtual or in person) then attend the event. The Waters by Bonni Jo Campbell—Escanaba Public Library July 17 5:30 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️12/10/24

15. Read a YA nonfiction book.📚Solito by Javier Zamora (my kindle)

16. Read a book based solely on the title. The Hearts Invisible Furies by John  Boyne⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️3/9/2024

17. Read a book about media literacy.📚 No…just no.

18. Read a book about drag or queer artistry~The Black Flamingo by Dean Atta⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️7/24/24

19. Read a romance with neurodivergent characters. The Girl He Used to Know by Tracey Garvis Graves⭐️⭐️⭐️ 2/18/24

20. Read a book about books, fiction or nonfiction.📚 the Personal Librarian by Marie Benedict

21. Read a book that went under the radar in 2023. The Vaster Wilds by Lauren Groff

Hardcover/signed 1st Edition ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️3/26/2024

22. Read manga or manwha.One Piece Pirates by Eiichiro Oda by ⭐️⭐️⭐️1/5/2024

23. Read a “howdunit”or “whydunit”-The Maid by Nita Prose ⭐️⭐️⭐️8/9/24

24. Pick a challenge from any previous years’ challenges and repeat.  Read Harder 2022–#19 Read a  horror by novel by a BIPOC author-My Heart is a Chainsaw by Stephan Graham Jones ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ 5/6/24

Five short in Read Harder. 😳 My favorites were The Waters by Bonnie Jo Campbell and The Black Flamingo by Dean Atta. This challenge definitely expands my genre selections.  

I joined an IRL book club. My second meeting is tomorrow. 


Wednesday, May 1, 2024

Seventy Three and me…

 April 29, 2024

I did it. I made it to 73 without him. Rode for about twelve hours to Ann Arbor and Clarkston. Cammy and I ate at Buck Shots.  Next Escanaba with my sister and her daughter. They took me to Rochester Brunch for Avocado toast and a Bellini. I contributed pastries. Many Happy Returns. Facebook and friends. Phone calls from the grands. Family greetings. 

I must repeat aging is not for the faint of heart. I am ready to be home with my list of projects. A puzzle and a good book. I hope the sunny weather has not spoiled me. 





Sunday, April 28, 2024

Prom night…





 April 27, 2024

Two days unti my seventy third birthday. Saying my goodbyes to Florida family. Aging is not for sissies




Haven’s Junior/Senior Prom. Pro makeup and nails. Corset dress. Silver glitter. Bouquet! 


Birthday Eve…

 April 28, 2024

‘‘Twas the night before birthday…Tomorrow I will be 73. Aging has been a trip. My road has been smooth at times and lately very rough. Losing my driver, literally, has made the last year so difficult. I am not good at grieving. I miss my beloved husband. I found this on Instagram. I found it a comfort. I hope my grief will make me brave. 




Friday, April 26, 2024

Packing up the camper…


 April 26,2024  

Look closely. I have seen a monarch butterfly every day. 

Three days til seventy three. I look at my face in the mirror and I wonder how I got here. My skin is lined. I look older than my mother ever did. I am a widow. Alone. I need to move forward. Make decisions about my house. Should I paint or side. Garage doors. Isabella. The camper. What do I want to do for me? 

10.  What are your top five sayings that encapsulate the accrued wisdom of your life experience?

1. What is it you plan to do with your wild and precious life? —Mary Oliver

2. If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together, keep me in your heart. I’ll stay there forever. —a.a.milne

3. Do not go gentle into that good night, Old age should burn and rave at close of day. Rage, rage against the dying of the light.—Dylan Thomas

4. A book is a dream you hold in your hands.—Neil Gaimen

5. The only things that matter are the little moments that make up a life. —Neil Gaimen



 

Thursday, April 25, 2024

On Your Feet…

 April 25, 2024

Cammy and I had dinner at Citrus tonight. U6 Prawns with Lemon Angel Hair Pasta. Delicious. Sat outside with a view of the ocean. Warm and breezy. Then we saw the musical Get on Your Feet. Gloria and Emilio Estefan. Lovely night.

Four days til seventy three. Oh, my. 





Wednesday, April 24, 2024

Seventy three is breathing down my neck…

 April 24,2024

Five days til seventy three. Oh, my. Packing to head back to Michigan. A lunch, a musical and Junior Prom still on my list of things to do. Bella survived boarding at a kennel. They said she was a real sweetheart. The people were lovely. Huge talking bird. I will miss being here in this gorgeous weather with my girls. Floating in the pool. Coffee outside. I love my teens. 

3b. What is the last time  you put something off that you really would like to do yourself? 

Always. I do so much for other people I put off anything I want to do for me. Sometimes I think I use this as an excuse not to chance failure. Remember, I just spent two years as my husband’s sole caregiver. There are no resources to give a caregiver support. American Cancer society, Pan Can, Hospice, etc have pamphlets, online info but no actual help with care. My goal once I get home is to do something I want to do just for me. Take a class. Paint a canvas. Listen to me. 

My daughters and families have shown me loving hospitality. I have been with them for 5 months. I am so grateful. I have turned a corner in this grieving process. I feel ready to move forward. 

                                Pictures of my winter!